“Have you ever received a personal compliment (not on your looks or writing), that was unexpected or unusual? Would you compare those to odd, half-baked or “left-handed” compliments?”
This is an interesting topic. I’ve received more than one such comment, and I’ve laughed about it because usually the person who gave it was a student who had no idea that she had complimented me in a round about way.
My husband gave me a “compliment” today even though he had no idea of what I’d said to him. He was watching the news this morning when I went into the family room. It was sprinkling a little outside, and I said, “I better not go out. I’m so sweet I might melt.” He reached for my hand and said, ” I don’t think you have anything to worry about.” That cracked me up. “What did I say?” he asked. I told him and we both had a good laugh about it.
Of course real compliments aren’t always given in words. Once back before I retired the faculty broke into groups to do some task. Several groups wanted me which I still feel like is a nice compliment.
I think most people feel good to be complimented so I’m not stingy with mine. When someone does something I think is good I tell them about it. You’d be surprised how their face lights up when they realize they’re appreciated.
Do you give compliments to people who you think have done something well?
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