Here's the dress she got married in. Matt loved it even if Violet didn't.
She picked a Christmas theme wedding cake too. I think it also matches the simple, tailored look Violet wanted.
A New Dream is available for $1.99 at http://www.amazon.com/A-New-Dream-ebook/dp/B004TAWHO4/ref=sr_1_1_title_1_kin?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1337637960&sr=1-1 or at http://www.astraeapress.com
Violet's second dress: http://www.brides.com/wedding-dresses-style/bridal-runway-shows/2011/10/new-badgley-mischka-wedding-dresses-fall-2012#slide=1
Violet's first dress: